How to deal with break up?

Just wanna share how do you guys deal with your break up... friends around me have a problem with their relation, then break up... down...sad...frustrated, can't moved into a new relation for a month...for a years...

it doesn't mean i never felt it, everyone know how strong their self is. what you need is only fight your self for the memories, do not remember any happy moment with him.

it's just showing to other people how weak and too silly if you're wondering something could be back in time for someone whose never think about your feeling at all.

-Remember you once love the man... there's no need to call him name.. for it would make you look bad for dating him in the first place. A silent and clean break up is better than the drama. It drags things on longer that way

-Remember if you tell yourself something enough time. You will start to believe it and make it happen. Instead of doubting or feeling in the dump instead rebuild and give yourself a brand new make over. OPTIMISM IS KEY.

-Remember (do not have a fling just to get back at him) It doesn't make you look good at all and trust me getting back at him will not help your reputation for the next guy you do decided to love and date. YOU WORTH MORE THAN THAT.

-Remember it didn't work out for the best, God had another more perfect in store for you.

-Remember. You still have your girl friends. Take some time off. Doll your self away. No more lock and keys. No more fights and your freedom is yours to use wisely. Heal yourself emotionally before

-Remember. You gave it your best shot it didn't work out and it sucks but you will be okay.

I hope that helps. And trust me girls.. there's always plenty of more break ups. Mr. Right is the last guy you date after all of the Mr. Wrong

You jump into the next relationship. This way you give the next guy a fair shot without bias or holding back.

                 "how do you guys deal with break up show how mature you are"

with love,

ms meii